Vibrating Dildos

By motor functions

The motor is the whole reason to choose this category, and the functions on offer decide how varied each session feels. If you are weighing these against other motorized toys, our vibrators guide compares them.

Vibration only

The simplest powered option: a realistic shaft with a built-in vibrator and a few speed or pattern settings. It keeps the lifelike shape and adds a steady, buzzy layer over the penetration. This is the gentlest way to add a motor, and it suits people who want to control the rhythm themselves with a little extra sensation on top.

Thrusting plus vibration

The motor pushes the shaft in and out automatically while the vibration runs alongside, so the in-and-out motion no longer depends on your hand. This is the biggest upgrade over a plain dildo, since it removes wrist strain on longer sessions and holds a steady pace that is hard to sustain by hand.

Full multi-function

Top-end models stack several functions into one body: thrusting, vibration, heating to around 42°C, a swaying or swinging head, and a wave-like peristalsis motion. Each can run alone or together, so the same toy shifts between deep, warm, and rolling sensations instead of locking into a single rhythm.

By control and power

How you operate the toy and keep it charged matters more here than on a non-motorized dildo.

Base button

The simplest control: a single power button set into the base switches the toy on and off. There is no remote to keep track of and nothing to pair, which suits people who want a straightforward, no-fuss experience. The trade-off is that changing settings mid-session means reaching for the toy.

Wireless remote

A compact remote switches modes and intensity without touching the toy, which keeps the rhythm uninterrupted and lets a partner steer from across the room. This is the most common control method in the range and the best fit for hands-free or partnered play.

App control

A few models pair with a phone app as a second way to adjust speed, patterns, and temperature. It adds finer control and is useful for long-distance play, where one person runs the toy from another location. If you only want simple control, the physical remote is enough.

By waterproofing and mounting

Where you can use the toy and how it stays in place are the last big decisions.

Suction cup base

A strong suction cup anchors the shaft to smooth, non-porous surfaces such as tile, glass, or a flat shower floor, leaving your hands free. Press it down firmly on a clean, dry surface for a secure hold; dust or moisture weakens the grip, so re-seat it before each session.

Fully waterproof

Models rated fully waterproof can be rinsed under the tap and used in the shower or bath, which pairs well with a suction cup for standing play. Always check the rating before submerging, since a splash-resistant toy should not be held under running water.

USB rechargeable

These toys charge over USB rather than disposable batteries, and a few show the remaining charge on a display. Charge fully before the first use and keep the charging port dry, since trapped moisture around the port is the main thing that shortens a powered toy's life.

Before use

Charge the toy fully before the first session, since a powered dildo arriving part-charged can cut out mid-use. Apply water-based lubricant only: silicone-based lubricants can bond to and degrade a silicone shaft over time. Check the waterproof rating before taking it into the shower, because a splash-resistant body should stay out of running water even if it looks sealed. Warm the shaft with your hands or the built-in heating if the model has it, and add lubricant to both yourself and the toy before insertion.

During use

Start on the lowest speed or intensity setting and work up, since the highest setting right away can feel overwhelming or desensitising. If the model thrusts on its own, let the motion do the work and use your hands only to adjust position. A suction cup base frees your hands entirely: press it onto a clean, dry, smooth surface and ride or mount it. The remote or app changes modes without reaching for the toy, which keeps the session uninterrupted. If anything hurts, stop and add more lubricant rather than pushing through.

Cleaning, charging and storage

Clean the toy after every use. Rinse a fully waterproof body under warm water and wash with mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner; if the model is not fully waterproof, wash only the shaft and keep the motor and charging port dry. Never boil a powered dildo, since the internal electronics cannot take high heat. Dry the shaft and, most importantly, the charging port completely before you recharge. Store the toy separately from other silicone items, in a breathable pouch or its box, away from direct sunlight. For more on materials and care, our guide to dildo materials covers the trade-offs.